Showing posts with label adoption. Show all posts
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Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Has adopting black babies gone out of style?


Angelia Jolie, Madonna, Joely Fisher, Sandra Bullock, Mariska Hargitay, Mary Louise Parker, Kristin Davis, Charline Theron, and Jillian Michaels are just some of the celebrities who have adopted black babies in the last decade. When I first noticed this trend, I immediately wanted to jump on board — and then immediately realized I’d been on this since 2000. This trend seem to come out of nowhere. Between 2005-2012, all of a sudden black babies were the next best thing like a new Hermes bag. But it doesn’t stop at the adoption process. These babies are growing up black in America today.  Let me start off by saying I do commend parents that adopted these beautiful babies that are now coming of age. However, with the “black lives matter” movement and the race tension that’s in the air, this would be a great time for these parents to set a trend to protect these precious gems and speak out. This is some serious star power we are talking about!

Adopting a child of another race can be enlightening, but that enlightenment can come with disparities that the child may encounter because of their race. The fact of the matter is, for change to happen, black America cannot do it alone. We can bring attention to the matter and may provoke a call to action, but we alone cannot change it. History has shown when change happens, it’s a collaboration of people, especially including white people of influence. Regardless if that change was provoked into action because of the attention. The influencers made it happen. For instance:

John F. Kennedy and the civil rights movement,

Oswald G. Villard and the NAACP,

William E. Walling & Henry Moskowitz and the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People

There is no better understanding of how someone of a different race is treated in America than if this person is living, breathing and eating under your roof. Regardless of how you feel about an individual’s race, as parents, that innate responsibly to protect your child is inevitable.  We may not all have the same walk in life, but as parents of black children whether you had one biologically or adopted one, we all share one commonality: We are raising black children in America. So let’s protect these precious gems and speak out as one to ignite change.

“Angel down, angel down, she said with her hands raised to signify ‘don’t shoot’. Why do people just stand around?” - Lady Gaga (2016) tribute to Trayvon Martin

Reference

www.Madamenoire.com